Epilogue
Yesterday Jen called
to congratulate us and as the conversation went on, she warned us that we could not
end the blog cold turkey. She said that the kindest thing we could do was to wean
off the readers slowly, or else something bad might happen. So it was this
conversation that inspired this final blog entry that I have called the Epilogue.
Let me first start by saying thank you to all for your honest comments, your enthusiam, and genuine
interest in our journey. We just loved that you followed along each day and
encouraged us to continue to write and upload pictures of the places that we
visited and the things that we saw. This blog became more than just a way to
document our journey. It became our life
line to family and friends. It motivated us in ways that cannot even be
described. It focused and helped us keep track of the little things, and to
take an abundance of pictures along the way, so we would have them for the blog
at night. To say that we looked forward to each and every comment is an
understatement. We received not only
comments as part of the blog, but separate text messages, emails and phone calls from those
who could not successfully leave a blog comment.
To all our family and friends – especially Steve (Hanson) for seeing us off in San Diego, Jen and Ben for visiting us in Colorado, Michelle and Brian visiting us in St. Louis, and Andy and Paige in Nashville, and Toni-Ann and Bruce in Virginia and for taking vacation time to spend with us; it made us appreciate just how lucky we are having all of you in our lives!
The Blog
Something you
may or may not have known, but perhaps you figured out. Steve and I had to set a few rules that
provided us with some structure for this blog early on – like on day 1. We
thought setting some simple rules would ensure integrity of the blog, provide two
different perspectives and to keep this little competition between us fair and
exciting.
First: We both would contribute to the blog equally and independently
Second: We would
alternate nights to post our entries
Third: We could use any
literary device we wanted
Four: Neither one of us
could change or modify one another’s post
Five: To keep it fun,
interesting and honest
Things We Will Never Forget
In California - for the scariest, most exciting moment when flying down the descent through Devil’s Canyon. How we stayed on our bikes with 50 mile an
hour crosswinds - I still don’t know.
In Arizona - for the gorgeous sand dunes and the vast beauty of the grand
canyon.
In Utah - for the
spectacular canyons and Bryce hoodoos, and the chance to breathe in fresh clean air, experience quite and peacefulness everyday.
In Colorado - for
the rocky mountains and roaring rivers that remind you of just how alive we are.
In Kansas - for meeting the kindest and most genuine people you will ever want to meet.
In Missouri - for
the amazing St. Louis Arch and the chance to ride up to the top in the tight, four-seat tuna can.
In Illinois - for the many, many rolling hills that were both frustrating and exhilarating at the same time.
In Kentucky - for walking and stepping ¾ of a mile down into the Mammouth Caves surrounded by structures both
exciting to navigate and creepy to look at.
In Tennessee - for
giving us Johnny Cash and the spectatcular restaurants and delicious food
selections right when we needed it most.
In Virginia - for
giving us the ocean, and chance to swim and enjoy the crashing waves for
hours in Virginia Beach.
Top Eleven Things I Loved
11. I love that we discovered
Arby's turkey sandwiches and the Waffle House
10. I love that I can admit that I really don't like sleeping in a tent all that much
09. I love that we saw different types of wildlife, small and large, every day or 95 days
08. I love that we were outside in the sun, and sometimes the rain, breathing in the fresh air and living in the present every day
07. I love that
Steve loved the yellow jersey that Andy and Jen gave him for father’s day and
because it came from the kids, he had to wear it everyday thereafter
06. I love that
Steve told me the story of the Princess Bride, a favorite movie of his, Andy and Jen's,
scene by scene one day when we were riding
05. I love that Steve would sing lyrics to different songs everyday as we rode our bikes
04. I love that Steve would recite different dialogue and have me try to quess the
film
03. I love that as Steve's beard grew, it got softer and softer
02. I love that Steve and I could spend every second, of every day together, without anything more than a frustration and usually only
if we got lost
01. I love that I felt safe everyday riding with Steve by my side
Beard and Hair
Over the past
three months, we have gotten a few comments about Steve’s beard and no comments
about my hair. Yes, I mean the white
streak. I guess I can understand why.
Steve is adamant that he will shave his beard as soon as we get home. As for me, I’m not sure yet. It has been quiet liberating not to have to
care about the color of my hair, but at the same time, I am not sure yet if its
time to go Au Natural. Surely, I am
entitled to take a few more days to think about this, right?
Our Journey
Total miles 3781
Total states 10
Total days 95
Total riding days 74
Total rest days 21
Total rain days 8
Total steepest climbs 14%-16% grade (Escalante UT, Vesuvius VA)
Longest climb 50 miles (Utah – Hanksville to Hite)
Total feet climbed in one day 6300 (VA, Vesuvius and Blue Ridge Pkwy)
Longest day in miles 82 (VA, Ashland to Williamsburg)
Shortest day in miles 18 (VA, Williamsburg to Yorktown)
Number of flat tires 0
Our cross-country journey |
So when and where are we headed next? As of right now, we are fairly confident that there will be a next summer bicycle tour adventure; perhaps not as long, but we would like to explore different terrain and a different culture; perhaps somewhere that takes us back to our roots! What I can say for certain is that our blog will have a sequel, but the story is still in development!
A photo passed along to me by my Aunt Lois |
I know everyone said they teared up on your last post, but I've got to tell you, this one got me so emotional! I loved reading your lists, and I LOVED the part about your hair, Di. Whatever you decide to do, I really appreciated your honestly. I respect the freedom you felt and agency you had over this trip, both physically, mentally, and emotionally. I was also floored that both of you never had a flat tire!
ReplyDeleteDiane and Steve are still asleep in the other room as I write this comment. Di stayed up most of the night writing this blog entry, so no one would be disappointed this morning. I doubt anyone will be disappointed as Di did an amazing job summarizing for us the emotional and spiritual journey we all took with them. Bruce and I have felt so honored to spend these past two days with them as they embraced their accomplishment, as they joyfully shared more stories, and as they begin adjusting slowly back to life before their coast to coast excursion. Thank you Di and Steve for the adventure! Now all that's left is to deliver you both back home safely to your mothers!
ReplyDeleteI love the journey photo.
ReplyDeleteI love the love list.
I love the blog.
And I love you guys!
Uncle Steve and Di, thank you for this blog! I definitely fluctuated in my reading of it - sometimes daily, sometimes catching up on 10 or 15 days-worth at a time, reading it on the T, in a park, at my office computer...reciting entries to mom or Laura as they drove. But I wanted to thank you for making it not only informative, but truly fun to read! Each post had the perfect balance of honesty, wit, and illustration. I'm sad it's over, but genuinely happy for your completion of such a memorable journey. Can't wait to see where you'll bike next!
ReplyDeleteSo sad its ending but wishing you both an easy transition back to every day life. It's been a blast. Hope to see you both soon.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the epiblog. I'm so happy that you were able to experience everything that you did. It really is life changing. I can't wait to see what else is to come!
ReplyDeleteI just had to comment on your blog about reaching Yorktown and meeting up with Toni-Ann and Bruce. But now I have to comment on the beautiful epilogue so different than anything I have ever read! Loved the descriptions written for all the states which will be embedded in your minds forever! And also the 11 things that you both loved which all of us also loved!! But can't wait to see you tomorrow!! CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR WONDERFUL JOURNEY!!!! Love you
ReplyDeleteDi and Steve, thanks for that emotional epilogue and those amazing facts you provided us. It is really sad to have it all end. Although I did not contribute to your daily journey, I was there in spirit and wishing you a safe trip. Not one accident that whole trip, huh? Wow!!
ReplyDeleteDi, you got me crying on your top 11 and how much love you and Steve have for one another. This is so heartwarming to read. And Steve has written every blog with words of love for you too. It will be great to see you both tomorrow.
Is it my understanding that you may have hinted at...cycling Italy?? lol....Wow...now maybe you could plan a group bike tour?
Welcome home.
San
PS I've also enjoyed reading mom's comments throughout the blog!!! Her entries were always flawless, encouraging, detailed and enjoyable to read. Great job, mom!!
ReplyDeleteLove the epilogue! It's been great to follow your journey! Can't wait to see you in person! Welcome Home! XO
ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome way to end this epic blog. I love the stats! It really incredible that you had 0 flat tires...who would have thought?...cheers to some amazing cyclists! Welcome back!
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